No, it’s not the technology.

IMVU, which is growing by leaps and bounds while SL is flatlined, is proof that no, it is not SL’s less than cutting edge graphics that keeps it from growing. It’s just not. No one cares about Farmville’s graphics. What people want, they get from IMVU and Farmville: community and interaction, esp if there is a game element to boot — the quality of the graphics is almost beside the point. And pretty much all computers can handle those awful graphics.

Over the years I have heard a lot of good suggestions about how to handle the first hour, and had hope that the browser “guest” viewer and this new “basic” viewer would help, but it doesn’t seem to —  yet. Because no matter how easy something is, if there is no intriguing CONTENT — and by that I mean something to do, people to talk to — why bother?  People like IMVU because they want to talk to other ppl and they can do that easily, with no learning curve (and no new computer). In SL new people are dropped down in some spot where they are likely to be harrassed by idiots. The chance is small that their computer will be able to rez anything worth seeing anyway.

The Linden Homes have worked as hoped — I get a lot of pretty new people looking at my houses, and I know from talking to them that a lot realized the limitations of their Linden homes pretty quickly. So, LL did something right, yay!

It’s really not about the technology, it’s about the content — the interaction. The easiest viewer possible will not fix that. And the hardest viewer — and lag, and inventory loss —  is just something people learn to work around if the content is compelling enough.

So by all means, add the shiny stuff. Fix the lag and inventory problems. But don’t expect that to result in population growth.

Please Don’t Make Me Decorate

My store is three sims — one is furnished house models, one mainly dining and kitchen, one mainly living and bedroom (with assorted other departments).

And it all has to be decorated.

And I dread and avoid doing it.

I didn’t start out avoiding it — no, I was like many of my customers. I was completely obsessed with decorating my first little house. I shopped the low prim stores and just loved putting it all together. 

Skip forward three years and here I am with three sims that need to be decorated. And frankly, it never quite gets done. There are room settings that have an unfinished look because that’s what they are. It is always hanging over my head — but somehow there are always more pressing things to do. Or that’s what I tell myself.  Because at this point “decorating” is just about dragging things out of inventory, rotating them, and positioning them — over and over and over.  

(I’m just glad I have never gotten sick and tired of making things, or I would be in real trouble. I still get excited about the process of making a sculpt or a texture and taking it inworld to see how it looks.)

Anyway, sometimes people ask if I will decorate their houses for them — come out and drag things out of inventory, rotate them, and position them, over and over.  There are no words to express the horror this inspires in me — I can’t even come close to getting my own store decorated, and someone wants me to spend my precious little time decorating their house instead of making things and doing customer support???  They offer to pay me, of course. Or promise to buy a whole house full of furniture.

Now, quite a few of these hate decorating as much as I do — they describe what a chore it is for them* (no one has to tell me!), even as they try to press me into service — and they just won’t take no for an answer.  They are  determined that I am going to decorate their house, whatever it costs**. And I am equally determined that I am not. Because you know what?  I get to decide what my job is, and I have decided that my job is to do only as much dragging furniture around as I absolutely have to, and no more.  Because this is not only my job, it’s my Second Life, too.

* Some ask if I can’t just put all the furniture in a rezzer so they can push a button and rez it at once. Hmm, that would just mean making all the furniture copyable, putting a script in each item, positioning everything in the house, recording the positions, taking each item into inventory, and putting it into a rez box. And then totaling up the cost of all the copy versions of the furniture, and then putting non-scripted transfer versions of the furniture back in the model home. Would only take a few days. For me, probably a week.

 ** Once someone insisted that I name my price to come decorate his house, after I had already politely declined several times, so I quoted him a price: $200.  Which he thought was entirely reasonable — until I clarified: USD. (And I was serious! Not that it was a “fair” price but that’s how much I did not want to do it.)

When a Bargain is Not a Bargain

Okay so we all have had the experience when we were new: we got a first home and ran out and bought some cool stuff to put in it — and discovered that we didn’t have enough prims for our 33 prim Chrismas tree!

Lesson learned!

Really? Because although all of us who have been around for a while are prim conscious, do we still know when something is a real bargain?  Let’s just see.

Since I sell houses, I am using houses as an example.  You are looking at two, about the same size, style, and quality. But one costs 5000L and the other costs 500L. A no brainer, huh? But wait — the first house is 200 prims and the second is 400.  And those prims have to be paid for, every tier day — 5L, or 2¢, per prim per month.

The first house costs 5000L plus 1000L per month to cover the cost of the prims — over a year,  17,000L.

The second house costs 500L plus 2000L per month to cover the cost of the prims — over a year, 24, 500L.

That’s a difference of  7500L — around $30 USD!  Yes, $30 worth of prims that you could be using for all kinds of other things.


Modders Have More Fun! Featuring Dixie Dabney & Daria Afterthought



Dixie Dabney
When Dixie Dabney mentioned I might want to come see how she modded her Magnolia Cottage she said “I warn you it’s bizarre.” So I was really curious!  I would not call her creation bizarre, but delightful and cheery — certainly it is colorful, indoors and out. 

Be sure to click the pictures to see a large version!




She made the inside into one big room and just look at the windows an doors!  All it takes is some basic skills in unlinking and modifying prims, tinting, and texturing — all of which are covered in my blog tutorials pages. If you would like to take a peek inworld, Dixie says come on by.

Daria Afterthought

Daria Afterthought went well beyond basic modding when she decided to redo her Bluebonnet Cottage (now a Violet Cottage). I was really amazed — she added a room upstairs, a tiny bathroom off the hallway, dormer windows on the roof, and put a wall and door separating the bedroom into two rooms. And she did it all just by unlinking and copying the prims in the house.

The Powder Room!

Wall and door separating the back room.









New Walnut Empire Bedroom Set

Some really exciting new features are included in the new Walnut Empire Bedroom Set.  The wonderfully sculpted Empire bed includes feather brocade retractable linens as well as an optional canopy with a curtain feature that rezzes from a menu.  The bed also has multiple single, cuddle and sleep animations.
Another new feature is the Empire styled armoire includes open-close doors and rezzes folded clothes and decorative bowls inside (or you can put anything else you like inside).

 This set also has all new Empire styled matching bedroom bench with sit animations and matching chaise with sit and cuddle animation.

Touch on and off gold trimmed lamps and matching feather brocade scarf tables bring the set together.

 Also included are pictures, rugs, and brass gold trim planter with fig plant. 

Check out the Marketplace for more Bedroom Sets.

Myers-Briggs Personality Types and Second Life

Why do some people almost instantly fall in love with Second Life and others never see the charm, no matter how many times a friend drags them inworld? Part of it is circumstantial — those who are, for example, homebound, may see the potential that they might not otherwise.

But we all know there is more to it than that. I conducted very informal surveys on two SL-related forums (Xstreet and SL Universe) and asked posters to report which Myers-Briggs (or Jungian/Kiersey) Personality type they were. What I found in both was that certain personality types that are fairly or very rare in real life are very over represented in Second Life.

Furthermore, Quinn Morani posted this in the SL Forum:

There was a thread about this on the old forum and I tallied everyone’s responses at the time. Here were the final results based on a sample size of 50.
http://community.secondlife.com/t5/General-Discussions/Myers-Briggs-personality-types/m-p/447777#M21…
Of particular note (and quite telling about whom SL is most likely to appeal to):

  • The IN’s make up over half of the forum population who responded to the thread (58%).
  • The I’s dominated the E’s (82% v. 18%)
  • The N’s dominated the S’s (70% v. 30%).
  • The correlation in percentages between the GD forum population and the general population is completely inverse.

In general, if someone is an INTJ, INTP, INFJ, or INFP — in other words, an IN +Anything — he is much more likely to find SL appealing than IS[anything] or EN[anything] — and an ES[anything] is likely going to hate SL.

My guess is that this is because the I = Introvert, and the N, while called Intutive, to me means more like “Introspective”.  So according to my theory an introverted introspective person is more likely to “get” SL than any other types.

What do those letters mean?  http://www.personalitypage.com/html/four-prefs.html

What are the sixteen personality types? http://www.personalitypage.com/html/high-level.html

How can you find out your type? http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

I am an INFP, absolutely made to fall in love with SL. What are you?

The Ultimate Romantic Bedroom

New to the store is the Dusty Rose and Antique Oak bedroom set, inspired by a Ralph Lauren set I fell in love with. (And yes, guys DO love being invited into romantic bedrooms like this!)



The antique oak bed is a beautifully sculpted four poster and the dusty rose bed linens are retractable. The bed also includes a number of sleep/cuddles/couples animations.



Dusty rose scarf tables match perfectly with the antiqued, 3 prim, silver lamps which have on/off glow touch.



The lovely dusty rose and antique oak boudoir bench includes sit animations and the matching chaise includes a cuddle animation as well as sits. Check out the 5 prim matching curtains in the store.




The antique oak double dresser and larger silver mirror are a perfect match for the set.



Each piece is available individually or as a complete boxed set. Come by the store today.


The set is at a special introductory price for three days on the marketplace only.

The Joys of Modifying

Once the owner of a very large well known store asked me why, if I did not mind her asking, I made my things modifiable. I couldn’t really think of any advantage to me in doing it, and several disadvantages (like, people can and do break their things and need replacements). But finally I told her the reason: “I just like them to be able to change their things to suit them.”

And not only that, but I encourage people to modify – La Galleria has always been about creating an individual look that suits the buyer. I know some people like to have a nice home but don’t really want to decorate it themselves – but most of my customers love decorating, which means they love the creative part of decorating and creating a look that is distinctively their own. And part of that can involve modifying what they select.

I do get lots of requests to modify things for people, and occasionally I will, usually if the person is only a few weeks old. But I know how empowering and satisfying it is to be able to make some simple modifications – to tint something, to retexture, and with a house, unlink and copy pieces to use in extending a patio or making stairs. And some have gone much further, even adding rooms to their houses.

I remember being delighted, when I was decorating my first little rental house, to find that I could mod my things. But the first 4 prim chair I ever made, I discovered I had NO idea how to link the parts into one object, and no one I knew to ask how. I wanted to cry.
I have not forgotten that – so now I have made lots of help notecards, and most of my Picks are help files. I spend lots of time in IMs teaching customers how to do for themselves the things they want modified. Here is an example of how Kryiel Lowenhart modded her Rose Manor — and it took it almost no time at all. She took pieces from the back terrace and made the side deck area, and it looks great:


Oh, if only I had known when I was new about the Torely video tutorials! I had no clue what a great wealth of information was to be found there. So now, I include links to specific tutorials along with step by step instructions. Torely has all kinds of beginner videos as well as great advanced stuff. I learn something new every time I look through them.

They can be found here http://secondlife.com/my/whatnext/video-tutorials/index.php? Go to the Browse button and take a peek at the Build videos. A gold mine! You may think that something like “Moving objects like furniture” is too basic – but take a look and you will see that Torley introduces some very helpful tips – some that it took me a while to discover on my own.
In the future I will be highlighting some of the videos highlighting some of the modding skills I have found most useful. Check the list of pages to the right for these pages on basic modifying —->

California Dreaming



I have been thinking about this house for a long time. I have lots of dream houses, but the classic California style of the Monterey always grabs my heart.




It has the same floorplan as the Rose Manor and Mountain Creek, with soaring ceiling, upstairs master bedroom and bath, and downstairs extra bedroom or other room, and optional loft. It has a lighter look and feel, so perfect if you are looking for a seasonal change.